Friday 12 April 2024

Cricket Season

Hello everyone, Chas here with John in sunny Grassington.  He sleeps a lot these days, but has no pain mercifully. Very little appetite either.  He can still talk but finds it hard.  He mentioned some clarity that he can perceive, and that he feels at peace.  He slept fine last night. He loves listening to the various birds singing outside.

He can't really articulate if he wants visitors or not. Anyone who did visit would struggle to hold a conversation with him, but he might appreciate just sitting in the stillness


Friday 5 April 2024

 Hi everyone. It might be difficuklt for me to communicate or write anything....  my son Chas is writing this.  please be patient, sorry if i dont reply to your messages and voicemails

A pathless land...

the wisest people on the planet have no dogma to peddle, no commandments to issue, no ideology to impose. They neither demand obedience nor recruit followers. They suggest, insttead, that we look for ourselves, within ourselves, and test our intuitions against observable reality. Jiddu Krishnamurti (1895-1986) said more in just five words – “Truth is a pathless land” – than I found in the foundational texts of our Abrahamic religions (and Mark Twain was nearly as concise in the quote which serves as my book’s epigraph). Compare and contrast Krishnamurti’s clear-eyed observation with Jesus’s pronouncement, in John 14:6, one of the Bible’s most quotable verses, that “I am the way, the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father exce through me”. The only way to the truth? What are the odds that the truth is to be 'found only in orthodox Christianity, or any one of those 40,000 dissenting denominations, or any one of the other major religions in the wordl

Sunday 31 March 2024

compulsory love...

The doctrine of compulsory love plays a pivotal role in Christian theology. The essence of sado-masochism, exemplified in the master/slave relationship, is being forced to love the one we fear: a divine commandment which is impossible to obey. God created us sick, yet commands us to be well. He made us flawed, yet commands us to be perfect. We have doubts, yet God requires us to be certain. He gifted us intelligence, yet forbids us to use it. God made us sexual beings, then commands us to be chaste. By demanding our submission to such irrational demands, the God of the Bible set the bar too high.

Saturday 30 March 2024

Message via Mandy...

Just to say I hear what you say about the blogs i have posted, and what you may not know is that I am not able to type more than a few words. So when I am writing about the event we had or anything to do with the family, its not that i don't have anything to say, it is difficult almost impossible to say what I want to say. So thats just me trying to write something when you see something i have written earlier, that is something different altogether. A quote from the book is very different from writing something off the top of my head. For that I need a bit more help so I don't want anyone to think that I am not grateful for everything that you have done. I just cant, I just find it difficult to write and I don't know if you understand this. So I am hugely grateful for everything, even if my responses sound rather short...

 

Thursday 28 March 2024

A turn for the worse...

Everything is changing... and not for the better. If you plan to visit, hold back. More news tomorrow...

From me to B...

Even in a vast and indifferent cosmos the righteous are convinced that humans are the crown of God’s creation. And not just humanity in general, but a small sub-section of humanity in particular: the kinship group of religious zealots to which they happen to belong. This narcissistic idea is repeated, with monotonous regularity, throughout the holy books of the Abrahamic tradition. No thought or deed escapes God’s attention, or so the Bible insists. Yet, individually and collectively, we humans may be over-estimating our importance, our singularity, our special status as the ‘chosen ones’, our centrality to the creator’s intentions. 

     Despite enjoying a starring role in the psychodrama of our lives, our influence and indispensability – even in our own locale – may not match our own lofty estimation. The truth is that most people in the world are getting on just fine without us. If you can’t imagine your own non-existence, just take note of how keenly your absence is being felt, right now, in New York or Paris. No one is missing you on the trading floors of Wall Street or in the pavement cafés of Montmartre. Life, I feel compelled to say, is carrying on pretty well without you in almost every other town and village on the planet. 

     We project ourselves into the centre of the action where we have no claim to encroach, then orientate the world to keep ourselves at the heart of things. Anyone who has a satnav already knows how this works. With every mile we drive, and every bend in the road we negotiate, our surroundings are constantly re-aligned to reflect our current position, our direction of travel and our choice of destination. The world seems to revolve around us; we no longer travel from A to B but from me to B.